determined to be home when I’m at home.



homeI can’t lie.

Sometimes my favourite part of the day is when I get to close the blinds and turn the night lights on,

Ready for a night at home.

These autumn months,

With the leaves all over the grass and the cooling down of the air,

I find that the retreat that my home has now become for me is more and more enticing.

It’s not that I don’t like going out and meeting people.

I actually love that too.

But there’s a weightlessness and an ability to exhale the world’s troubles,

That comes with drawing the blinds and putting my pjs on

Knowing that I am safe in the sanctity and familiarity of my home.

I have wanted to talk on so many things pertaining to determination this month,

And this is why I have left it so long,

But really, right now, I am in a season of battoning down the hatches amongst the busiest of days and often nights.

And it takes determination to make sure I get there.

Lots of it.

My family is my priority.

I have realised that time is so precious and often one of the most wasted resources

I’ve had in my possession.

And it has slipped so quickly through my fingers,

Like sand.

I want to listen and learn from those around me who I’ve heard lament over the way time ‘flew’

And how they wished they’d captured the years that had gone so quickly with their children.

‘If only I had a chance to do it again’

‘I wish I’d made the most of that time’

‘They only stay small for a short while.’

Determination is what it takes to keep that space sacred

And firmly in my focus at all times.

To keep my eye on the present years of my children’s lives

So that they’re not lost in the business of my life.

For me, that’s where my determination lies and will do for the next while,

Until they fly away and discover their own worlds.

Right now,

I am their world

And I am determined to keep them bang on the centre of the dart board of it.

Cate x


About Cate Williams

We all have a story and until recently, Cate was happy to keep hers to herself. When she was 6, her singing teacher put her in the corner of the room. The reason, she was told, was that she wasn’t opening her mouth wide enough when she was singing. She was shy and because of that, she was shut up and so she shut down. The day stayed etched in her memory as a painful experience and one that influenced the person she was for years... Many years later, Cate now takes the stage, sometimes in front of thousands of people. Her voice and the songs she writes, have been heard around Australia and the world. Her reluctance to share her story has now been replaced by a realisation that many stories are the same. The isolation and shame that often drives us into feeling like we are alone in our story, is in fact her main motivation when it comes to writing, whether its in music or as a blogger. Many of us struggle with the same issues of trying to make sense of this crazy world and of trying to overcome the voices that tell us we can’t and we won’t. Cate's words resound with hope and love, and her message is one that says you’re not alone and that you can. It calls the ugly beautiful and it brings the hopeless into something redemptive. Cate is a mum, wife, singer, song writer, pastor, teacher and blogger and you can read more about her here. http://www.catewilliams.com.au