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“I am a rare species, not a stereotype.”

Ivan E. Coyote

Have you noticed how often we apologise as women? It has become the greatest epidemic of our times and it couldn’t be more prolific in the area of our purpose. Just recently I wrote an encouragement to someone online about their passion for a particular subject. It was a topic that was directly associated with what they love deeply and gives their time to generously.

Straight away she apologised for being so pedantic and passionate. And my reply just fell out of my keyboard “Don’t apologise: you are perfectly purposed.”

As I walked away from my computer I was reminded of how many times I apologise for the things that set my soul on fire. Like how often I post about my family on social media. Or I try to water down my strength, so I don’t make others feel uncomfortable.

Do you struggle in this comparison trap around our purpose and its outworking?

You are a rare species. Uniquely designed, with intention and brilliance. There is a set of algorithms that match your life that cannot be replicated. Your story is profound and your voice is ever growing and changing.

I often run workshops with women and it always shocks me when I find how much our society and particularly online culture silences us from finding our unique story and voice. The purpose of life has been shoved down our throats and often we feel choked by the weight and responsibility of it all.

What if our greatest purpose on this planet was to learn to love ourselves and sing our unique song a little louder every decade?

What if the greatest love story of all was discovering the very heartbeat of our personality and accepting ourselves as whole and okay?

Recently my little girl pulled out from the top of my desk drawer a group of photos tied together neatly with string. They were a collection of photos of a friend who lived out her days with such uniquely purposed perfection. She was loud and she was quiet. She was complex and so very simple. She smelt like rain on a summers day and she was a tornado through a party. I sat and chatted with my three-year-old about my sunshiny yellow friend.

You see my friend was so unique that it is impossible to forget her.

She penned these words in the last couple of years of her life and they remind me often to keep on discovering my own personal why. She also encourages me also to stop comparing my life and voice to what everyone else is doing and to continue on discovering myself.

Wear your Brave Undies Everyday

Don’t dwell in dull tones

Blaze in full colour

Love from the centre

Smile at the future

Live freely

Sing as if your soul depended on it

Speak up for the voiceless

Hug with both arms

Don’t allow fear to cripple your dreams

or intimidation to silence your voice.

We are a vapour

Fragrance the earth well

Ruth Elisabeth Carnegie.

The lesson I learned deeply from my dear friend’s life is that we are all unique and we all are perfectly purposed.

Continue to discover what sets your soul on fire my internet friend?

Your life is but a canvas with a unique flare that no one else can replicate.

Amanda


About Amanda

Amanda Viviers is an Author, Speaker, Creative Ninja, Novice wife and Mum. The author of four books and she can be found most days at her shack close to the beach writing her fifth. She is a presenter on radio across New Zealand and Australia and is the co-founder of Kinwomen; a network that advocates for women globally. From a corporate leadership setting, she unexpectedly found herself at 36 married and a new Mum. From this season of change, her innovative communication style is full of stories about flexibility, strength, self-care and re-establishing your identity in the changing seasons of life. She lives a creative life, helping women find their voice and her greatest joy is to help people live inspired.


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